How to Break Bad Habits

Breaking a bad habit requires disrupting the habit loop. Read my blog ‘Identifying habits’ to understand habit loops and how they are created. 


Here’s a step-by-step strategy on how to disrupt a habit loop:

1. Identify the Cue

First, figure out what’s triggering your bad habit. Is it boredom? Stress? Certain people or places? By identifying the cue, you can start becoming more aware of what sets the habit in motion.

2. Change Your Routine

Once you’ve identified the trigger, the next step is to replace the bad routine with a positive one. Let’s say stress is your trigger for snacking on unhealthy foods. Instead of reaching for the chips, try going for a 5-minute walk, doing a few stretches, or sipping on water. Over time, this new routine will become your go-to response to the cue.

3. Focus on the Reward

Every habit is driven by the reward, so it’s important that your new habit provides a similar sense of satisfaction. For example, if snacking gives you comfort, find a healthier alternative that offers a similar emotional reward, like listening to calming music or enjoying a cup of tea.

How to Form New, Positive Habits

Breaking bad habits is only part of the puzzle. The next step is creating new, positive habits that align with your fitness goals. Here’s how to do it:

1. Start Small

Building a new habit is a gradual process, so start small. If your goal is to work out consistently, begin with just 10 minutes a day. Once that feels manageable, slowly increase the duration. It’s much easier to build on small successes than to try to overhaul your entire routine at once.

2. Attach Your New Habit to an Existing One

This technique, called “habit stacking,” can help reinforce your new behaviour. Let’s say you already have a strong habit of brushing your teeth every morning. You could stack your new habit of stretching by doing it right after you brush your teeth. Since you already have the cue (brushing your teeth), it will be easier to remember to stretch afterward.

3. Be Consistent

Like exercise and lots of things in life, consistency is key when forming new habits. Aim to perform the new habit at the same time every day, and try not to skip it, especially in the beginning. The more consistent you are, the more automatic the habit will become over time.

4. Celebrate Progress

Reward yourself for sticking to your new habits. Even small celebrations, like telling yourself “well done,” can help reinforce the habit loop in a positive way. Recognising your progress, no matter how small, will keep you motivated and focused on your long-term goals.

Build Habits for Lasting Change

Changing your habits might seem challenging, but it’s a powerful way to transform your fitness journey. By understanding how habits work and using strategies to break bad habits and form new ones, you can set yourself up for lasting success. Start small, be patient with yourself, and remember that every healthy choice you make is a step closer to achieving your goals.

If you need help developing a plan or sticking to new habits, I’m here to support you every step of the way. 

Let’s work together to turn your goals into lasting, positive changes.